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5 Tips to Transition Your Home to Spring

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Happy spring! I don’t know about you, but we’ve had a rough past few weeks to end the winter — sickness galore has abounded in our home. With much of the illness behind us, I’m ready to welcome springtime and freshen up our home!

Spring always evokes a sense of cleanliness, freshness, and a sense of newness. These are the senses that I try to pull into my home as I transition for this new season. So for today’s blog post, I wanted to share five tips to transition your home for spring.

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Preparing for and Returning From Maternity Leave as a Lawyer Mom

March 1, 2025

Career

I returned to work from maternity leave two weeks ago, and it feels like I’ve lived 1,000 lifetimes since then! Balancing lawyer work with life as a new mother of four was truly jarring. Thankfully, the work I did to prepare for maternity leave really helped the work side of my work/life equation. I look…

On Being Christian AND Black: Race and the Evangelical Church

February 24, 2025

Faith + Grace

It’s not a Happy Black History Month, at least for all. It has always been a happy time for me to celebrate the achievements, triumphs, and contributions of Black Americans and Black culture throughout history. It’s a joyful occasion, an opportunity to reflect with gratitude on the rich cultural heritage that has shaped so much…

meloniebygrace

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Lover of Jesus
Attorney | Wife and Working Mama of 4
Corporate mama life | Encouraging women to live by His grace!
📍So. Cal

May 20

Every once in a lifetime, you meet someone like @_faithelyse. A true minister of the Gospel. A force of nature. A community leader, activist, and visionary. Another auntie for my babies. A true sister. A heart of gold in a woman with big dreams and an even bigger love for people and justice. An event designer extraordinaire. One of the best mothers and wives I've ever known. The Jonathan to my David, the knuck to my buck. An answered prayer for so many people, including me.

A faithful friend, who can find? I did — she's my best friend.

Thank you for being you, girl. Happiest of birthdays @_faithelyse!

Every once in a lifetime, you meet someone like @_faithelyse. A true minister of the Gospel. A force of nature. A community leader, activist, and visionary. Another auntie for my babies. A true sister. A heart of gold in a woman with big dreams and an even bigger love for people and justice. An event designer extraordinaire. One of the best mothers and wives I`ve ever known. The Jonathan to my David, the knuck to my buck. An answered prayer for so many people, including me.

A faithful friend, who can find? I did — she`s my best friend.

Thank you for being you, girl. Happiest of birthdays @_faithelyse! ...

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Apr 20

He got up!

Happy Resurrection Sunday from my family to yours!

He got up!

Happy Resurrection Sunday from my family to yours! ...

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Mar 12

Happy National Working Moms Day! Being a lawyer, board member, and mother of four isn’t easy. There’s always a tension between my professional life and my motherhood — a win in one role often means I took a loss in the other role. A long day of crushing it at work means I missed seeing four smiling faces that day. Volunteering at the girls’ schools means missing out on client-facing events.

Even though there’s tension, I’m a better person for it. I don’t think I could be as good of a lawyer without the skills motherhood gave me, and I think there’s incredible value for my daughters to see me, a Black woman, pursue professional dreams in this space.

So I’m spending this National Working Moms Day in gratitude for this journey. Cheers to all you working mamas out there — you’re doing great!

Happy National Working Moms Day! Being a lawyer, board member, and mother of four isn’t easy. There’s always a tension between my professional life and my motherhood — a win in one role often means I took a loss in the other role. A long day of crushing it at work means I missed seeing four smiling faces that day. Volunteering at the girls’ schools means missing out on client-facing events.

Even though there’s tension, I’m a better person for it. I don’t think I could be as good of a lawyer without the skills motherhood gave me, and I think there’s incredible value for my daughters to see me, a Black woman, pursue professional dreams in this space.

So I’m spending this National Working Moms Day in gratitude for this journey. Cheers to all you working mamas out there — you’re doing great! ...

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Feb 24

Last week, I returned to work from maternity leave. I really enjoyed working again, but I admit I felt disoriented, too. Looking at photos of this little dumplin’ helped, and made me realize I haven’t shared her monthly photos since she turned three months old. Sis is now 6 months! 🤦🏾‍♀️

So here’s Worthy Girl at 4 months, 5 months, and now 6 months! Time is flying and I’m not ok! 😭

Last week, I returned to work from maternity leave. I really enjoyed working again, but I admit I felt disoriented, too. Looking at photos of this little dumplin’ helped, and made me realize I haven’t shared her monthly photos since she turned three months old. Sis is now 6 months! 🤦🏾‍♀️

So here’s Worthy Girl at 4 months, 5 months, and now 6 months! Time is flying and I’m not ok! 😭 ...

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Feb 15

My one and only slow dance partner. My favorite co-chef, theologian, frisbee partner, debater, and girl dad captain. The best to ever do it.

My love, my forever Valentine.

My one and only slow dance partner. My favorite co-chef, theologian, frisbee partner, debater, and girl dad captain. The best to ever do it.

My love, my forever Valentine. ...

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Jan 21

We spent this MLK Day of Service serving people affected by the #losangeleswildfires. It was heartbreaking to see so, so many families completely without. Thank you @ladreamcenter for providing such an attainable opportunity for my whole family to help love on Angelenos and rebuild a city so special to us ❤️

We spent this MLK Day of Service serving people affected by the #losangeleswildfires. It was heartbreaking to see so, so many families completely without. Thank you @ladreamcenter for providing such an attainable opportunity for my whole family to help love on Angelenos and rebuild a city so special to us ❤️ ...

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Dec 26

Merry Christmas! Rejoice in the wonders of His love this year ❤️ — The Jordans

Merry Christmas! Rejoice in the wonders of His love this year ❤️ — The Jordans ...

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Dec 9

Worthy is 3 months old 🩷 This feels momentous — I feel such a positive shift in my mind and body at the three-month mark and end of the fourth trimester!

Worthy is 3 months old 🩷 This feels momentous — I feel such a positive shift in my mind and body at the three-month mark and end of the fourth trimester! ...

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Nov 5

Vote like a mother today 🩷 Voting for my daughters and their future 🩷

Vote like a mother today 🩷 Voting for my daughters and their future 🩷 ...

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Nov 4

Thank you all for the birthday wishes!!! 🩷 I had a great weekend celebrating with Joshua and the girls. I can’t believe I’m 34 with FOUR kids 😳 life comes at you fast!

Thank you all for the birthday wishes!!! 🩷 I had a great weekend celebrating with Joshua and the girls. I can’t believe I’m 34 with FOUR kids 😳 life comes at you fast! ...

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Nov 2

This is 34 🩷 it’s my birthday!

I am grateful for these 34 years — for my body that has carried my 4 girls (having the last 3 in the last four(!) years), for my mind pushing through depression and anxiety, and for my heart still full of resilience and dreams.

I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot, but without Jesus it all means nothing. So, I’m most thankful that He has walked with me, and carried me. I’m really excited to keep going with Him for the rest of my days.

#birthdaygirl #thisis34

This is 34 🩷 it’s my birthday!

I am grateful for these 34 years — for my body that has carried my 4 girls (having the last 3 in the last four(!) years), for my mind pushing through depression and anxiety, and for my heart still full of resilience and dreams.

I feel like I’ve accomplished a lot, but without Jesus it all means nothing. So, I’m most thankful that He has walked with me, and carried me. I’m really excited to keep going with Him for the rest of my days.

#birthdaygirl #thisis34 ...

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Nov 1

Harvest Fest, Reformation Day, Fall Fest, Hallelujah Night, Fallelujah Night, whatever you want to call it — we enjoyed a beautiful night at church as Minnie Mouse x 2 (Honor and Noah), Minnie’s cat Figaro (Worthy), Daisy (Raegan), Clarabelle (me), and Clarabelle’s boo Goofy (Joshua) 🩷

Harvest Fest, Reformation Day, Fall Fest, Hallelujah Night, Fallelujah Night, whatever you want to call it — we enjoyed a beautiful night at church as Minnie Mouse x 2 (Honor and Noah), Minnie’s cat Figaro (Worthy), Daisy (Raegan), Clarabelle (me), and Clarabelle’s boo Goofy (Joshua) 🩷 ...

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Oct 28

2 months of our Worthy girl 🩷

2 months of our Worthy girl 🩷 ...

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Oct 22

Anyone else trying to figure out how to get their toddlers to eat more fruits and veg? Enter: @littlebellies Organic Frozen Purées! I ran to Target to grab to grab all five flavors! They’re frozen cubes thawed quickly so that I can throw them into sauces, make popsicles, or serve them as sis for a quick snack! I can’t wait for Worthy to try them when she’s ready!

Find them at your local @target! Let me know if you loved them, too!

#ad
#littlebelliesusa
#littlebellies
#gifted

Anyone else trying to figure out how to get their toddlers to eat more fruits and veg? Enter: @littlebellies Organic Frozen Purées! I ran to Target to grab to grab all five flavors! They’re frozen cubes thawed quickly so that I can throw them into sauces, make popsicles, or serve them as sis for a quick snack! I can’t wait for Worthy to try them when she’s ready!

Find them at your local @target! Let me know if you loved them, too!

#ad
#littlebelliesusa
#littlebellies
#gifted ...

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Sep 27

Doing dishes for my family of six (!) used to involve water everywhere, soap rings, and soggy sponges. Who knew a sink caddy and a fast drying rack would bring so much order to my countertop and sink?

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/4RjfP

Doing dishes for my family of six (!) used to involve water everywhere, soap rings, and soggy sponges. Who knew a sink caddy and a fast drying rack would bring so much order to my countertop and sink?

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to shop this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/4RjfP ...

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Sep 26

The absolute lights of my life, my beautiful baby girls 🩷🩷🩷🩷 Happy National Daughters Day, my girls

The absolute lights of my life, my beautiful baby girls 🩷🩷🩷🩷 Happy National Daughters Day, my girls ...

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Sep 23

Breastfeeding routine with my one month old ft. @jackandjillkids 🩷

I’ve breastfed all my kids and I’ve always been advised to wipe their gums after nursing — clean and healthy gums help to make sure that their teeth are strong and healthy when they come through! It’s so cool that there are wipes for parents now from Jack N’ Jill— sterilized, individually wrapped, natural, and made with xylitol!

Happy mouth, happy baby!

#jacknjillkids #breastfeeding #onemonthold

Breastfeeding routine with my one month old ft. @jackandjillkids 🩷

I’ve breastfed all my kids and I’ve always been advised to wipe their gums after nursing — clean and healthy gums help to make sure that their teeth are strong and healthy when they come through! It’s so cool that there are wipes for parents now from Jack N’ Jill— sterilized, individually wrapped, natural, and made with xylitol!

Happy mouth, happy baby!

#jacknjillkids #breastfeeding #onemonthold ...

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Sep 22

One month (and a few days) of Worthy 🩷 swipe for the gummiest smile 😍

One month (and a few days) of Worthy 🩷 swipe for the gummiest smile 😍 ...

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Sep 21

Happy 2nd Birthday to the happiest girl with the biggest most beautiful smile, Noah girl! 💜 (She turned 2 earlier this week)

Her favorite show is Little Bear (remember that show from Nick Jr?) and her favorite color is purple, so a purple Little Bear themed party at home was perfect. She’s grown so much from last year (when we did a strawberry themed party - swipe for one year old Noah photos).

Noah Grace, we love you forever and ever 💜

Happy 2nd Birthday to the happiest girl with the biggest most beautiful smile, Noah girl! 💜 (She turned 2 earlier this week)

Her favorite show is Little Bear (remember that show from Nick Jr?) and her favorite color is purple, so a purple Little Bear themed party at home was perfect. She’s grown so much from last year (when we did a strawberry themed party - swipe for one year old Noah photos).

Noah Grace, we love you forever and ever 💜 ...

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Sep 20

As a mother of four, I’m looking for quality, health-focused products for my girls. That’s why I used @jackandjillkids for our morning routine with my littlest ones!

The biggest draw for me was the natural toothpaste with 40% xylitol - an ingredient our dentist repeatedly recommends but is hard to find in toothpaste! That, plus the flossers are indivisible wrapped (a hygiene win when you have tiny hands dipping into a bag repeatedly).

Find @jackandjillkids products using the link in my stories!

#meloniebygrace #jacknjillkids

As a mother of four, I’m looking for quality, health-focused products for my girls. That’s why I used @jackandjillkids for our morning routine with my littlest ones!

The biggest draw for me was the natural toothpaste with 40% xylitol - an ingredient our dentist repeatedly recommends but is hard to find in toothpaste! That, plus the flossers are indivisible wrapped (a hygiene win when you have tiny hands dipping into a bag repeatedly).

Find @jackandjillkids products using the link in my stories!

#meloniebygrace #jacknjillkids ...

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meloniebygrace

3,505 14,415

Lover of Jesus
Attorney | Wife and Working Mama of 4
Corporate mama life | Encouraging women to live by His grace!
📍So. Cal

May 20

Every once in a lifetime, you meet someone like @_faithelyse. A true minister of the Gospel. A force of nature. A community leader, activist, and visionary. Another auntie for my babies. A true sister. A heart of gold in a woman with big dreams and an even bigger love for people and justice. An event designer extraordinaire. One of the best mothers and wives I've ever known. The Jonathan to my David, the knuck to my buck. An answered prayer for so many people, including me.

A faithful friend, who can find? I did — she's my best friend.

Thank you for being you, girl. Happiest of birthdays @_faithelyse!

Every once in a lifetime, you meet someone like @_faithelyse. A true minister of the Gospel. A force of nature. A community leader, activist, and visionary. Another auntie for my babies. A true sister. A heart of gold in a woman with big dreams and an even bigger love for people and justice. An event designer extraordinaire. One of the best mothers and wives I`ve ever known. The Jonathan to my David, the knuck to my buck. An answered prayer for so many people, including me.

A faithful friend, who can find? I did — she`s my best friend.

Thank you for being you, girl. Happiest of birthdays @_faithelyse! ...

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Apr 20

He got up!

Happy Resurrection Sunday from my family to yours!

He got up!

Happy Resurrection Sunday from my family to yours! ...

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Mar 12

Happy National Working Moms Day! Being a lawyer, board member, and mother of four isn’t easy. There’s always a tension between my professional life and my motherhood — a win in one role often means I took a loss in the other role. A long day of crushing it at work means I missed seeing four smiling faces that day. Volunteering at the girls’ schools means missing out on client-facing events.

Even though there’s tension, I’m a better person for it. I don’t think I could be as good of a lawyer without the skills motherhood gave me, and I think there’s incredible value for my daughters to see me, a Black woman, pursue professional dreams in this space.

So I’m spending this National Working Moms Day in gratitude for this journey. Cheers to all you working mamas out there — you’re doing great!

Happy National Working Moms Day! Being a lawyer, board member, and mother of four isn’t easy. There’s always a tension between my professional life and my motherhood — a win in one role often means I took a loss in the other role. A long day of crushing it at work means I missed seeing four smiling faces that day. Volunteering at the girls’ schools means missing out on client-facing events.

Even though there’s tension, I’m a better person for it. I don’t think I could be as good of a lawyer without the skills motherhood gave me, and I think there’s incredible value for my daughters to see me, a Black woman, pursue professional dreams in this space.

So I’m spending this National Working Moms Day in gratitude for this journey. Cheers to all you working mamas out there — you’re doing great! ...

252 5

Feb 24

Last week, I returned to work from maternity leave. I really enjoyed working again, but I admit I felt disoriented, too. Looking at photos of this little dumplin’ helped, and made me realize I haven’t shared her monthly photos since she turned three months old. Sis is now 6 months! 🤦🏾‍♀️

So here’s Worthy Girl at 4 months, 5 months, and now 6 months! Time is flying and I’m not ok! 😭

Last week, I returned to work from maternity leave. I really enjoyed working again, but I admit I felt disoriented, too. Looking at photos of this little dumplin’ helped, and made me realize I haven’t shared her monthly photos since she turned three months old. Sis is now 6 months! 🤦🏾‍♀️

So here’s Worthy Girl at 4 months, 5 months, and now 6 months! Time is flying and I’m not ok! 😭 ...

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